kalicolaYeah i know exactly what you mean, something looks good in one condition and bad in an other and you can't find middle ground. It's especially bad with COT....

so much hate... ahem! Anyway about the style it's not that there is something i don't like , it's just i wouldn't be able to play with your preset because my eyes will hurt *cough*bloom*cough* . Your preset is awesome and i am sure alot of people will love it.
Edit.I should probably try your preset my self, there is a limit to what you get from a youtube video. Give as a download link when and if you feel comfortable sharing it

Give these a try.
SkyrimPrefs.ini
[Display]
iBlurDeferredShadowMask=5
fInteriorShadowDistance=3500.0000
fShadowDistance=4000.0000
iShadowMapResolutionSecondary=4096
iShadowMapResolutionPrimary=4096
iShadowSplitCount=2
iShadowFilter=4
iActorShadowCountInt=12
iActorShadowCountExt=20
fSpecularLODStartFade=2000.0000
fShadowLODStartFade=1500.0000
fLightLODStartFade=3500.0000
iShadowMode=3
bTreesReceiveShadows=1
bDrawLandShadows=1
bDrawShadows=1
bShadowsOnGrass=1
iShadowMapResolution=4096
iShadowMapResolutionInt=8192
iActorSelfShadow=1
iActorSelfShadowResolution=8192
fShadowBiasScale=0.2500
iShadowMaskQuarter=4
bFloatPointRenderTarget=1
bDeferredShadows=1
Skyrim.ini
[Display]
fShadowLODMaxStartFade=1000.0
fSpecularLODMaxStartFade=2000.0
fLightLODMaxStartFade=3500.0
fSunShadowUpdateTime=0.0025
fSunUpdateThreshold=0.0025
iShadowMapResolutionPrimary=4096
bShadowsOnGrass=1
enbseries.ini
[SHADOW]
ShadowCastersFix=true
UseBilateralShadowFilter=true
ShadowQualityFix=true
DetailedShadowQuality=0
ShadowFilterQuality=0
ShadowBlurRange=0.1
ShadowBlurRangeInterior=0.1