Ok, I don't know how and why but now SSIL works O.O
I did some accurate tests here and there with many others configurations and now everything seems in place.
EDIT
[IMPORTANT]: ok I found out, I don't know if it's like this for everyone but basically I always started the game with ambientocclusion=false, because I activate it with DoF/SSAO toggler only when taking screenshots, this time I started the game with ambientocclusion=true and SSIL magically works.
That's a bug I suppose..?
Sorry to have bothered you, if I found out why now ssil works I will report it.. who know that maybe I changed something and I didn't noticed.
Thank you all for the efforts
